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27 things I'm grateful for
Well hello to you my reader chums! I recently turned 27 and honestly, it baffles me I'm closer to my thirties than my early twenties, however, I'm loving the woman I've grown into. Every year, I write a birthday post on either experiences or learnings and this year, I wanted to step back and reflect on what I'm grateful for.
Gratitude is one of the most important things for living a positive life and enjoying what life offers. To celebrate my birthday, here is a list of 27 things I'm grateful for.
My family and friends
I have the most adoring family and friends around me and as I've gotten older, these connections have grown even deeper. I'm lucky to have people in my inner circle who are my biggest cheerleaders and my biggest support system. Whether it's wanting to book a fun holiday or go to a coffee shop to have a chat, they're always up for spending the time. As I've grown, I've increasingly improved in opening up to my family and friends, developing our relationships more.
My supportive partner
I've been dreaming of finding true love for a long time, a love where that person supports me, grows with me and wants to be silly with me always. I'm lucky to find that in my partner who from the first moment of meeting me, has been a constant in my life. We love to adventure together and do the little parts of life together which makes my heart so full. I'm grateful for us to grow together and see what our future holds.
Living by the beach
I've lived by the beach my entire life and it's home to me. There's something to peaceful in knowing the sound of the waves is only a few minutes away from my home. I love heading to the beach for strolls, reading and enjoying the sunshine. I've recently moved to another beach town as well and love it just as much. I appreciate how wonderful it is to have the beach on my doorstep.
Working for myself
My biggest goal in life has always been to run my own business and work for myself, and here I am today, making it work. I started full-time freelancing this year and it's progressing exactly how I wanted and can't wait to see what the future holds for my career.
My travels
Travelling is one of my biggest passions and as you may guess from this blog, I love nothing more than roaming around new cities and countries. I've been privileged enough to travel to 27 countries and many of those I've seen more than once, and I'm excited to see even more countries on my list.
My local freelancing community
When I started freelancing, I was worried about how lonely the experience would be. However, where I live, there's an amazing co-working group which I've joined and regularly attend multiple times a week. It has given me the opportunity to develop great connections with other freelancers, grow my confidence and find 'colleagues'.
Beach sunsets
I'm obsessed with sunsets, especially on the beach. I think there's something so magical about watching the day come to a close with the calm ambience of the waves. With the beach on my doorstep, I can watch as many sunsets as possible.
My flexible schedule
Working for myself means I've finally been able to experience the flexible schedule I've always wanted. This means I'm able to work based on my productivity levels, slot in hobbies I want to do and socialise on weekdays whenever I like, rather than waiting until the weekend.
The wonder of books
Books have been my biggest passion from a very young age and to this day, reading brings me an incredible amount of joy. I'm obsessed with various books but especially, historical fiction, crime thrillers and feminist literature.
My writing skills
My obsession with books is what fuelled my passion for writing. I've been wanting to write since I began to read and as I grew so did my writing skills and today, I've written five books and have a career in writing - everything I've dreamt of.
Baking cookies whenever I want
I love to bake, and I love brownies, cookies and cake more than anything. One of the little things as an adult I love is to bake whenever I want to. If I crave cookies or brownies, I can bake them in my own kitchen and it's wonderful.
All types of food
Food is one of the greatest things in life and I adore trying new cuisines and different types of foods. I'm grateful for all the restaurants around me that I can regularly visit.
Relaxing in coffee shops
There is something so peaceful about sitting in a coffee shop and reading a book or having a chat with a pal. In my town, there are many gorgeous coffee shops to enjoy this simple pleasure.
Yoga on the beach
I recently started yoga classes on the beach and love the relaxing element of it, and also appreciate how accessible it is where I live.
Musical theatre
I adore musicals and think I've seen around 15 in total over the years. I could happily see musical theatre shows time and time again - they are beautiful. One of my favourite pleasures is playing musical theatre tunes and singing my heart out.
Nostalgic music
Music is one of the best things about life and hearing someone's thoughts through their songs is a gorgeous experience. There are so many tunes and albums which bring back a nostalgic feeling and I love listening to them on repeat.
My blog
I've had this blog for ten years and to this day, it brings me an immense amount of joy to write and share my thoughts with the internet.
My Italian heritage
Being half-Italian is something I'm incredibly proud of and every time I visit Italy, my heart feels so full. I love Italy and how it is a part of my heritage and soul.
Trying to make new recipes
Cooking is another favourite thing as I love how there's so much you can do with food and there are plenty of recipes to try.
Road trips
The joy of a road trip is the best, there's something entertaining about sticking on some tunes or a podcast and admiring the scenery around me.
Plane rides
Soaring through the sky is a phenomenal feeling, knowing you start the day in one location and end it in another. I've been lucky enough to make use of travelling and experiencing many plane rides.
Freedom of living the life of my dreams
It's amazing to be sitting here living what I've dreamt about growing up. I always wanted to work for myself, be in a loving relationship and stay living by the beach - and I'm here doing just that. I love how I have the freedom to do exactly what I want.
My body
I've had a love-hate relationship with my body for years and it has taken me a while to accept it and learn to love it as my body has changed through the years. However, I'm incredibly grateful for the powerful things my body does for me every day and continues to do.
My anxious brain
I used to think anxiety was a hindrance in my life but as I've grown, I've realised what a positive effect it can have and how it has helped me develop and achieve things I never thought I would. Living with anxiety has certainly been a journey over the past decade but I'm grateful for the lessons it has taught me and how it has made me more understanding and empathetic to others.
The power of kindness
Kindness is all around us, from the little things loved ones do to a greeting of a stranger. It's what makes life so magical.
Dungarees
I live in dungarees and they're my favourite item of clothing to wear on whatever occasion. They're comfy, cute and suit me perfectly.
Quality time with loved ones
My loved ones mean the world to me and I wish I could spend every day with them all and enjoy life. But as life does get so busy, I appreciate all the quality time loved ones make for me and the things we do together.
I hope you enjoyed this post. What are you grateful for?
Thank you for reading <3
Ultimate guide to Dambulla, Sri Lanka
Well hello to you my reader chums! I'm missing the wonders of Sri Lanka; it has to be one of my favourite countries I've visited. Sri Lanka featured plenty of beautiful experiences and scenery and I felt welcomed with open arms by the people.
If you're planning a trip to Sri Lanka, Dambulla is a must-see and here is the ultimate guide to what to see and do.
What to see and do in Dambulla
Hike up Sigiriya Rock or Pidurangala Rock
I will rave about this hike time and time again as it was one of my favourite experiences of the entire trip. Dambulla is renowned for two hikes, Sigiriya Rock and Pidurangala Rock. Sigiriya Rock is a UNESCO Heritage Site, whilst Pidurangala Rock is located a couple of kilometres away. You can do either hike as the views will be just as amazing as the other.
I chose Pidurangala Rock for a couple of reasons: it was cheaper, $2 in comparison to $35 and it was nowhere near as crowded. As I reached the top of the rock, I could see the crowds on Sigiriya Rock. Plus, by climbing this one, I had a gorgeous view of the UNESCO heritage site. Pidurangala Rock was a phenomenal experience because it really challenged me with my hiking skills and confidence.
I especially loved it because the view was out of this world. It genuinely felt like I was on a cloud, looking out at the stunning natural scenery below and surrounding me, especially Sigiriya Rock. We timed it beautifully as we got to the top a while before sunset and got to enjoy the view in the daytime and watch the sun go down.
Visit the Dambulla Cave Temple
As the largest and best-preserved cave temple in Sri Lanka, it holds great historical significance and is a wonder to visit. The Cave Temple I enjoyed for many reasons. Firstly, I loved the uniqueness of the fact it was in a cave and had many Buddha statues; it was awe-inspiring to wander around and soak up the culture. I also loved the location of the temple, despite the long walk to the top, it overlooked the natural side of Dambulla.
Go on a safari in Hurulu Eco Park
Elephants are my favourite animals and in Sri Lanka, I knew there were loads of opportunities to see them roam free in the wild. Depending on the time of year determines where the heard of elephants are. As we went in January, they were roaming around the Hurulu Eco Park in Dambulla.
We booked a safari tour through our homestay and the jeep driver is what made the experience even better than it was. He drove us to the park earlier than any other tourists, meaning for most of our tour, it felt as if the eco-park was ours to explore. I also loved how cautious our driver was for the elephants' welfare and that he wouldn't crowd them, unlike some of the other jeeps we witnessed.
I loved the freedom of driving through the park and witnessing the elephants just go about their day and enjoy it. The whole experience was magical and I'd give anything to relive the wonders of being in the elephant's natural habitat.
Go to a spice garden
Spice gardens are very common in Sri Lanka and often as a part of a tour or when you're being taxied around, you would be offered to you to see one. However, despite them trying to force us to visit, I really enjoyed the spice garden. I'm a big fan of holistic health and I really enjoyed learning more about what herbs and spices can do, as well as receiving a free massage.
Explore its surrounding nature
Dambulla is a hub for gorgeous surroundings with green wherever you look. The roads are filled with trees and many high viewpoints meaning you can see views of green scenery for days. We stayed at a homestay and our driver helped us with many of our excursions and even took us to a beautiful rock to watch the sunset. As we left our accommodation in his car, he drove through various village lanes and then we arrived at this massive rock to climb up, which boasted a pretty epic landscape.
Where to stay in Dambulla
The accommodation options in Dambulla vary from hostels, homestays to hotels. The accommodation in Dambulla had to be one of my favourite places I stayed in Sri Lanka and a place I will never forget. As a homestay, the Perfect Hideout was located close to the Cave Temple and had the kindest owner. He helped us book excursions, taxied us around and generally, was a helping hand on our trip. Plus, he made us breakfast every morning and always checked in with us. The room itself was beautifully modern with every amenity you could need.
Things to know before visiting Dambulla
- It's hard to get around - Dambulla's main attractions aren't walkable to each other; you need to hire a tuk-tuk to get around everywhere, or if you're feeling brave, hire a scooter.
- Talk to the locals for recommendations - Our host at the homestay was a blessing during the time in Dambulla as he helped us with many excursions, taxis, food recommendations and advice.
- Wear suitable clothes - The excursions in Dambulla require suitable walking shoes, especially for the hikes and being in nature. Pack accordingly for all of these attractions.
- Visit the attractions as early as you can - The weather can get hot and attractions can get busy which means it's best to visit first thing in the morning or later in the day.
I hope you enjoyed this post! Are you planning a trip soon?
Thank you for reading <3
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How to deal with self-doubt - my best tips
Well hello to you my reader chums! Self-doubt is inevitable. As human beings, we're our own worst critics and easily doubt ourselves in every possible way. I will easily admit that I'm terrible when it comes to self-doubt and doubt myself far too often about the littlest of things.
As part of my self-love journey, dealing with self-doubt has gone hand in hand with that and I'm slowly improving it. If you're dealing with self-doubt, here are my best tips on how to care for yourself.
Keep a positivity log
I've been recommended this idea a few times and it's one I love to share because it's so useful. Every time someone says something nice to you, in person, via email or by message, note it down in this log. It could be a compliment about how you look, it could be about something you've achieved or even a task done well at work. Whatever the positive thing, the log is a great piece of writing to read when you're not feeling your best and doubting yourself.
Write a list of everything you've achieved
When I'm feeling doubtful about myself, I like to take a step back and look at the wider picture, and consider everything I've achieved. This could be the little tasks I've achieved in one day or the bigger projects and accomplishments over my lifetime. It reassures me I am capable, worthy, and determined and can achieve anything I want to.
Reach out to loved ones
If the feelings of doubt come in, sometimes you need love, affection and support. This is where you can reach out to any loved ones around you to offer this comfort. Whether it's your partner, best friend, parent, colleague or neighbour, whoever is around you can help boost your mood, and sway your mind away from doubtful thoughts.
Focus on an activity which makes you happy
When I'm feeling down and doubtful, it often makes my mood low, and that results in feeling sad. I find doing an activity which I love can help make me feel a little happier and move these doubtful feelings aside. Whether it's writing, baking some cookies, reading, heading to the beach or watching one of my favourite shows, anything small can do wonders.
Practice self-care
Self-care is more than bubble baths and facemasks, however, in this instance, it may actually be those two things. Doubtful feelings can lead to feeling down and that's when a pamper may come in handy. I love to have a bubble bath or have a chill evening of not thinking about anything and resting in my comfy clothes.
Utilise affirmations
Affirmations are powerful and can really steer your mindset when you're feeling great. I have an app called 'I Am' which sends through daily affirmations of all kinds, affirming lovely and kind things about myself. In these moments, repeat words such as 'I am capable', 'I am intelligent', 'I will achieve great things' and 'I am beautiful'.
Write down your thoughts
Negative thoughts can breed in my brain like a disease and releasing them can make things easier. In moments of doubt, get out your notes app or a notebook and write down everything you're feeling. This will take a weight off your mind and help you focus on other things.
Feel all of your feelings
I'm a firm believer in feeling everything you're feeling rather than suppressing it. As if you push it down, the feelings are more likely to come out louder and bolder.
I hope you enjoyed this post. How do you deal with self-doubt?
Thank you for reading <3
2-week itinerary for Sri Lanka
Well hello to you my reader chums! Sri Lanka has my heart, I'm still in awe of the incredible experiences I had in the country and loved travelling over the course of two weeks around the country. With a diverse range of experiences from temple hopping, and tea plantations to beaches and hiking, Sri Lanka offers something unique for everyone.
If you're planning a backpacking trip to Sri Lanka and unsure where to go, here is my 2-week itinerary for Sri Lanka featuring many exciting destinations.
Colombo - 1 night
As Sri Lanka's capital, Colombo is typically the city you will fly into, wherever you depart. I've got to admit Colombo was my least favourite part of Sri Lanka because essentially, it's a commuter city. It's loud, packed with way too much traffic and crowds of people going about their day. I'd recommend staying here for the night, simply to rest up before travelling somewhere else after the flight. There are a couple of sights to see in the city including various temples and markets, but generally, it's a city to eat, sleep and spend time in friendlier locations.
Anuradhapura - 2 days
From Colombo, you can get the train to Anuradhapura and it takes around 5 hours. The train has different class carriages and you can book the tickets either online or buy them at the station. I loved the train journey as it had some gorgeous green scenery.
Anuradhapura isn't huge and two days is enough to experience its ancient capital and the variety of iconic temples. This amount allows you to soak up the sights, experience the natural side of the city and blend in with local life. Despite the historical significance, it's not an over touristy place and allows you to immerse yourself in the culture.
Dambulla - 3 days
Dambulla is larger than Anuradhapura and I would suggest three days to make the most of the attractions and experiences here. It takes around 3 hours on a bus from Anuradhapura to Dambulla and once you're there, it's easier to have a mode of transport to get around. Dambulla was one of my favourite places due to its gorgeous sights. It's home to the famous Cave Temple, Sigiriya Rock and Piduranagala Rock, perfect for experiencing the natural, picture-perfect landscapes Sri Lanka offers. Also, here I went on an elephant safari (in an eco-park) and enjoyed the wonders of the many spice gardens. It has a combination of hikes, wild experiences and religious significance, plus a completely natural landscape throughout the town.
Kandy/Nuwara Eliya - 2 days
Kandy to Ella is a very recommended route for backpackers, however, there isn't much in Kandy. You can easily spend one day there to experience the best sights such as the renowned Temple of the Tooth, botanical gardens, the markets and the beautiful lake, set in the middle of the city. From there, I would head en route to Ella. However, instead of getting the 8-hour train journey, hire a driver to take you to Nuwara Eliya and get the train to Ella from there. I'm incredibly thankful we made this choice because it allowed us to experience many beautiful sights between Kandy to Nuwara Eliya, including the tea plantations, a tea factory tour, waterfalls and endless sights of greenery. When we arrived in Nuwara Eliya, we also got to see the town and our driver dropped us off at the station, ready for our train.
Ella - 3 days
The train from Nuwara Eliya took around 4 hours and was the famous journey for' sticking your head out of the train' for a photo. Arriving in Ella, it was the first place that felt like tourist heaven, with plenty of backpackers and families. I'd recommend three days in Ella because it has many different sights and spots to relax, eat and enjoy the holiday spirit. The best sights range from Little Adam's Peak, the Nine Arch Bridge, and waterfalls including Diyaluma Falls. Plus, it's a beautiful place to walk around the natural paths and enjoy mountainous views.
Unawatuna - 3 days
To end the trip on a high, head down south and explore the phenomenal beach scene. There are many different towns down south to choose but we went for Unawatuna and I'm thrilled we did. The beach haven featured many wonderful stretches of sand, endless brunch places, and delicious dinner spots and was nearby to the historical Galle Fort. It was the perfect way to bid goodbye to Sri Lanka, relaxing and soaking up the sunshine.
I hope you enjoyed this post. Where's next on your travel wishlist?
Thank you for reading <3