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Hello 2017 - New Years resolutions

Well hello to you my reader chums and Happy New Year! I cannot believe 2017 has arrived and 2016 passed by so quickly. I did so many things within those 12 months that I hope this year is just as memorable. My last post, I wrote about the highlights of 2016 and today wanted to focus on goals for the upcoming year.

2017 new years resolutions
Bidding goodbye to an epic 2016 in the best possible way possible with my favourite people! 

2016, for me was the year of personal growth, incredible adventures and unforgettable memories with my loved ones. I want to continue this positive energy into the next year and all the years to come.

Here's the resolutions I hope to tackle in 2017:

  1. Putting me first -  I'm one of those people who worry a lot about everyone else's happiness and needs instead of focusing on my own. This year, I want to be that little bit more selfish with my time, pursuing my goals and focusing on me a little bit more.
  2. Travelling more - In 2016, I was lucky enough to go on 5 different holidays, visiting a handful of beautiful destinations. Through flying so much and seeing what the world has in store, this year I'd love to continue travelling, going to places I've never been before. I have an endless list of destinations I'd love to visit, all it takes now is some planning!
  3. Getting back into reading - Ever since I was able to read, my nose has always been in a book. Over the past few years, I've got too obsessed with the world of YouTube and social media, that reading took a back seat. This year, I'd love to rekindle that love of immersing myself into a story, reading every night before I go to bed.
  4. Being more daring - 2016 was a year of growth in many aspects of my life. This upcoming year, I want to further that even more, constantly pushing myself out of my comfort zone. Whether that's wearing a new outfit I wouldn't usually go for, hanging out with a new group of people or conquering one of my fears; I aim to just say yes to many more opportunities.
  5. Do some charity work - I'm a big fan of work many charities to do for others in need. I've never really dabbled into the world of helping others apart from donating when I can and adopting an elephant. However, this year, I want to see if there's any volunteering opportunities in my local area, to offer my time to those who need it.
  6. Pass my driving test - In August just gone, I finally plucked up the courage to begin driving lessons. Surprisingly, I wasn't the anxious driver I'd thought but generally feel quite comfortable behind the wheel. In 2017, I hope this is the year I'll be driving on the roads in my own car - I have my test booked, so fingers crossed all goes well.
  7. Continue pursuing my writing career - Writing has been a big passion of mine since a young age. Whether it was writing my own books or working for a magazine, I knew it was the career I wanted to go into. I'm going to begin focusing on it a lot more, trying to start freelance writing work and continuing the novel I began. 'You get what you work for not what you wish for'
  8. Getting fit and healthy - I set this goal every year, but instead of punishing myself for eating badly, I'm aiming to eat well and having treats when I fancy them. I think as long as you're not eating unhealthy foods all the time and indulge a few times a week on a few glasses of wine or a whole tub of Ben & Jerry's, it's okay. I'd love to however, get back into exercising more, whether that's beginning a gym membership or walking a lot more to places, I want to build up my fitness level to how it was a few years back.
  9. Spending time with my loved ones - With work, my hobbies and general life admin constantly coming up, I don't make nearly enough time to spend with my loved ones, who've been there for me since I was a baby. Family is everything and I sometimes take them for granted. I aim to do more things this year for those supporting me since day 1.
  10. Learning to love my own company  - Even though I'm an introvert, I always like to have either my best friends or family around me as I'm not the biggest fan of being on my own. I think this all comes down to overthinking and how my mind works. If I'm distracted by something when alone, it's okay as I can focus on that instead of my thoughts. I want to aim to love being on my own, whether I'm distracted or not. I'd love to fully enjoy a walk to myself, sitting alone in a coffee shop or even watching a movie, instead of this constant need to talk to someone, filling that lonely void.
I hope you enjoyed my post about 2017 resolutions. What goals have you set for this year?

Thank you for reading <3
2017 new years resolutions

Autumn adventures

Well hello to you my reader chums! As Autumn has now arrived, it's that time of year where all the cosy activities begin and the run up to Christmas commences. Autumn has to be one of my favourite seasons because it's the transition from summer to winter, a time when long days turn into long nights and it becomes a season to experiment with layering fashion, combining a series of darker colours. I love how evenings can be spent tucked up with a good book and hot chocolate or film nights with friends, cosied up in onesies or blankets. The vibe is simply heart-warming, with the nogalistic Christmas preparations starting and the random adventures this season takes us on. 

'Best friends make your smile a little bigger, laugh a little louder and life a lot better'

Not the Saturday just gone but the week before I had one of those weekends that was so cherish-able it was something to document on my blog. Even though I see my best friends on a very regular basis ( I work with Chloe and see Danielle a couple of times a week), there's not many occasions where I can just spent the entire weekend purely with them both. This weekend was clearly an exception because we were able to, spontaneously spend some quality time together. On the Saturday we headed up to one of our local shopping areas to look around the shops and see a food festival they had on. During the route home we decided to head to one of our local pubs for a couple of drinks and some food, this however didn't go to plan. We ended up staying there the whole night, having a whale of a time/laugh, meeting new people and chatting the evening away. Since it got so late, we ended up all going back to Danielle's place, having a hilarious sleepover just like the sleepover club, sharing a double bed! Considering we were extremely giggly at this point, we took several pictures, chatted and then fell asleep. The following day led to us going home and meeting up later to see the incredibly sad 'Miss you already film', a perfect choice for a movie with your best chums. Once we'd been emotionally drained (we were all in floods of tears), we walked from the cinema home, taking a nature route, talking away about the most random things, conker hunting and generally just having a fab giggle. Spending such spontaneous fun with my two best friends was such a treasure. I'm so blessed to have these two in my life, bringing endless amounts of happiness and warming my heart always. True friendship is pretty hard to find as the best ones are already mine. These two support me through everything, continuously make me smile, helping mold me into who I am today and I genuinely couldn't thank them enough. Friendship is an aspect needed to remind you that life can truly be great, unforgettable memories are made possible into future stories to tell.
To fully appreciate the autumnal atmosphere, a picture of collecting conkers with leaves all around was rather expected. Even though only a few pictures were captured, they've become some of my favourite images of us as a trio.

Experiencing moments of genuine happiness, laughter and love for one another is rare. Looking back on these times makes me so thankful to have the best friends I do, sharing such fun adventures together. 

I hope you enjoyed this lifestyle type post. What do you like best about autumn?

Thank you for reading <3